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September 12, 2026 · Richmond, Virginia

This is not a Wedding

No ceremony. No vows. No processional. Just a party — and you're invited.

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The Details

An evening of controlled chaos

We're throwing a party to celebrate our marriage — without the traditional ceremony. Think cocktail hour that never ends, a DJ who understands the assignment, and dancing under the dome.

When

Saturday, September 12, 2026

6pm cocktails | 7:15pm dinner | 8pm dancing | 10:30pm last call | 11pm go home

Where

Science Museum of Virginia

2500 West Broad Street
Richmond, Virginia 23220

What to Expect

Exceptional cocktails. Dancing. Good conversation. The distinct sense that reality has softened around the edges.

What Not to Expect

A ceremony. Walking down an aisle. Lengthy speeches. A bouquet toss. Anything remotely traditional.

Dress Code

Black Tie — interpreted

We're asking for formal attire because this is a celebration worth dressing up for. But we encourage interpretation.

Embrace the unexpected. A melting pocket square. An impossible color. Accessories that shouldn't exist. The only rule: come as the most elegant version of yourself.

Some ideas

  • Floor-length gowns, cocktail dresses
  • Tuxedos, dark suits
  • Surrealist accessories encouraged
  • Metallics, jewel tones, chartreuse
  • Comfortable dancing shoes

Please avoid

  • White or ivory (that's Meg's territory)
  • Casual attire
  • Anything you couldn't dance in

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Let us know you're coming

We need a headcount. For the bar. For the caterer. For our own sanity. Please RSVP by the date on your invitation.

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Registry

If you're feeling generous

Your presence is the real gift. But if you'd like to contribute to our new life together, we're registered at the following:

Accommodations

Where to stay

We recommend staying in Scott's Addition — Richmond's most walkable neighborhood for restaurants, breweries, and late-night tacos.

Courtyard by Marriott Scott's Addition

3100 W. Leigh Street
Richmond, VA 23230

Book your room in our block

A Local's Guide

Richmond, briefly

You're in a great city. Here's where we'd send you.

Eat

  • Lost Letter $$$$
  • Lillian $$$
  • Slack Tide $$$
  • Lucky AF $$$
  • Peter Chang $$
  • ZZQ $$
  • Don't Look Back $$
  • Eazzy Burger $

Drink

  • The Veil Brewing Co. (brewery)
  • Vasen Brewing Company (brewery)
  • Ardent Craft Ales (brewery)
  • Cirrus Vodka (cocktails)
  • Blanchard's (coffee)
  • Grit (coffee)

Breweries all walkable from the hotel.

Do

  • VMFA (free, world-class)
  • Maymont
  • Virginia Museum of History & Culture
  • American Civil War Museum
  • Belle Isle (hiking)
  • Carytown (shopping, walking)

FAQ

Questions you might have

Wait, so there's no ceremony?

Correct. We'll handle the legal bits privately. This party is purely a celebration — no walking down aisles, no officiant, no "speak now or forever hold your peace." Just cocktails, dinner, dancing, and the people we love most.

Can I bring a date?

Please refer to your invitation for specifics. If it says "and guest," absolutely. If it's addressed only to you, we hope you understand — the venue has limits and we wanted to keep this intimate.

What's the parking situation?

The Science Museum has a large free parking lot. We'll also have details about rideshare pickup/dropoff zones closer to the date.

Will there be an open bar?

Yes. We take hospitality seriously.

What if I have dietary restrictions?

Please let us know when you RSVP and we'll make sure you're taken care of. Our caterer is excellent with accommodations.